October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month
by anonymous

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

The following article was written and submitted anonymously. We would like to extend our thanks to the author for sending us such a personal article. It is our hope that it will touch the lives of others and give courage to those who need it.

Millions of women everyday are affected by domestic violence. Women and even young teenage girls are mentally, physically, and sexually abused everyday. Not by strangers, but by people who are near and close to them: their spouses and boyfriends.

I don't know facts, I don't know the specifics, but I do know it can be scary, it can be horrible, and it can be confusing. You feel deep love for a man and he uses you to take out his aggression, his aggravation, his dislike for the world around him. You can do nothing right, everything is wrong. You can't care for your children, you can't keep a clean house, you can't do or be what he wants you to be. Yet in the next moment you
are beautiful, you are sexy, you are wonderful, you are the answer to his prayers, and he will never do it again. The only thing is, HE is WRONG, not you. Women do not realize they are a victim, not the cause.

You asked why would a woman stay? I ask how easy is it for them to leave? It isn't. They are afraid of being hurt worse, being killed, their children being hurt. They feel it is truly all their fault. They feel they are worthless, no one else would want them. These things are filled in their heads by the men who promised to love, honor, and cherish them.

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